Self confidence should be the main highlight to everything you decide to do in life. If that is accomplished, you will likely achieve success in everything that you put your mind to. Be it your relationship, your work, studies, basically everything and anything.
If you are in a relationship and you suffer from low self confidence and low self esteem, your man will likely start judging you, or worse, start walking all over you like a doormat. Nobody wants that, so it is best to step up your game and work towards building your self confidence and boosting your self esteem.
Build your Self Confidence and Self Esteem:
This does not happen overnight, especially if you are extremely shy and not assertive. Indecisiveness also does not help the situation. Here are a few tips to help you build your self confidence, especially when it comes to maintaining a healthy relationship with your partner.
Improve your Self Image:
Work towards how you look and present yourself to others. If you always look tired, messy and disinterested, you are probably not going to get far with what you want. This can be achieved by dressing appropriately, looking presentable, speaking in a well mannered and assertive way, having eye contact with people while talking to them, and being able to convey your point of view.
While being in a relationship, all these things really go a long way in establishing a concrete foundation with your partner. It shows him you are interested and aware, and you are putting a conscious effort to make things better.
If you are in a relationship, always remember that you are a different person than your partner. Do not try merging your individuality with that of your partners. This will not make you unique, and ultimately the person that you partner fell in love with will disappear.
Focus on the Positive:
Remember that positive thinking goes a long way. If you remain positive and deal with everything in a positive light, you are likely to have a stress free life, or a considerably lesser amount of stress in your everyday life.
Be Open about your Embarrassing Stories:
If you are able to achieve this, nothing can stop you from being your true confident self. Sharing one’s embarrassing stories is like opening up completely about oneself to someone else. It is also liberating when you open up in such a way. You start feeling like there is nothing to hide.
Get to know YOU:
You should figure out what interests you and what your long term plans should be. Carve your own path instead of relying on other people. That will be your road to success. Your partner will also start appreciating you more once you are able to accomplish this. It will make you seem more determined and focused, and you will develop a drive within yourself to succeed no matter what.
Also, knowing where you are your most confident self really helps a lot. Identify those areas and try figuring out how you are so confident when doing those tasks, and then try figuring out why other tasks become so hard for you to do.
Learn to always smile no matter what the situation. Smiling not only makes people around you comfortable, but you start feeling confident and happy yourself. No one is secretly sad when they are smiling. Your boyfriend or partner will love it if you are always smiling and happy, instead of being sad.
You are a unique person with your own qualities and traits, and no one can replace you. If you truly understand that you will start loving and appreciating yourself even more, and you will start living a better life.
Step out of your Comfort Zone:
As long as you stick to your comfort zone, you will never experience new things in life. You should step out of your regular life and experience something different every day, no matter how much it stresses you out.
If you incorporate all these rules in your life, the people around you, especially your man, will find you irresistible. Never give up an opportunity to feel good about yourself and never unnecessarily feel sad. It will give out the wrong vibes.