Your boyfriend left you. And now you want him to regret doing so.
You want him to regret it so much that he’ll come crawling back to you. Did I get that right?
Here’s the thing. This stunt you want to pull off is not going to be easy. Because you and your ex is most likely not in good terms right now.
So, I’m not going to guarantee you 100% success. BUT I’ll surely help you take your chances up a few notches.
Does that sound good to you? If yes, then let’s resume.
Common Belief: Men never regret leaving their girlfriends.
Fact: Lots of men DO regret it.
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Well, no one really knows exactly how many males all over the world feel regretful after leaving a relationship.
But if you use one of those free keyword volume tools online, you’ll see that men more than women look for tips on how to get their exes back.
In fact, check out the results below:
Interesting results, right?
How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Regret Leaving You
When it comes to hiding emotions after a breakup, women are at the “novice” level. Men, on other hand, are at the “expert” level.
You can’t really blame them. Guys were raised to believe that showing of emotions is a sign of weakness. And this notion doesn’t particularly suit well with a guy’s ego.
That’s why if you ask any guy if they ever regretted leaving their girlfriend, their most likely answer would be “of course not.”
But of course, that’s only a front. The truth of the matter is the feeling of regret usually kicks in within 3 days to 1 month after a breakup.
That fast? Yes!
Look. Let’s say you’ve been with your ex for around more than a year or so. It would only be natural that he’ll miss you and the usual stuff you do together. When this realization hits him, he would feel doubtful of his decision of letting you go.
Of course, men are pretty headstrong. Most would refuse to acknowledge the fact that they might have made a big boo-boo of breaking up with you.
He’s young, wild and finally free, so you bet he’ll party hard and find new girls to fill your role. That’s an attempt on his part to feel good and dismiss any notions of going back to you.
If Lady Luck’s on his side, he will achieve his goals. But if he’s unlucky, the girlfriend position will still remain vacant. And then he’ll surely slowly realize just how good he had it with you.
But enough about him, let’s focus on you. What are the things you can do to make him really regret letting you go?
Two Things You Can Do to Make your Ex Boyfriend Regret Leaving You
#1: Temporarily Cut Off Your Communication Lines
One time, I was checking my Facebook News Feed and found this really interesting article. It tells about the breakup story of a young couple, who seemed to have the perfect relationship.
The girl was real devastated and clueless why the breakup even happened. But when the girl was asked to talk more about her relationship with her ex, the real culprit of their recent break up became obvious.
Turns out, they were texting and calling each other 24/7. The guy got bored with her, thus the break up.
So… what does their story have to do with you again?
To avoid suffering the same fate (again), I want you to stop communicating with your ex. And that means NO texts, emails, online chats, and phone conversations.
We want fear to creep into his system. We want him to feel afraid of losing you and realize how much you really mean to him. If you pull that off, he will surely try to contact you.
(“But when should I break my silence?”)
Answer: You can lift the communication ban after 2 to 4 weeks. But before you try contacting him, here are some things you should keep in mind:
- Talking all day long is unacceptable.
- Make sure your messages are brief and intriguing.
- Wait for 10 to 15 minutes before responding to his texts. You don’t want to give the impression that you’re too available.
- Contact him again the next day? Definitely a big no-no. Remember, your goal is to make him keep guessing and miss you enough that he can’t stop checking his phone to see if you’ve texted or called.
(“Wait, what should I text him?”)
No need for flowery words. Perhaps you could say something like: “I made pancakes for breakfast today. I just remembered how much you like it when I make pancakes for you.”
After that, all you can do is hope that he will give a reply.
#2: Focus On Improving Yourself
Seriously, don’t make him the center of your universe. Guys find it more attractive if women have a life outside their relationship.
It takes a lot of pressure on his part because he’ll feel that you’re not too dependent on him for everything.
Remember, you must become an ex-girlfriend that’s worth regretting. And you can accomplish exactly that by simply focusing your attention and energy on improving yourself.
- Have your own “adventure time.” Try something that’s exciting and new to you.
- Get fit and/or having a complete makeover.
- Read books, blogs, audio materials, videos that talk about self-improvement.
It’s not a walk in the park, but you have to do everything you can to become a happier person.
Once you’ve done that, take a second and leave a comment.
I’d love to know what to you thought of the post.