We are all different but we all want same things, even if it doesn’t always seem like that. And we do make honest mistakes, especially when it comes to love. Sometimes it is a common knowledge that drives us further from the goal, and sometimes we are just our worst enemies. Why do we sabotage ourselves constantly?
You are trying your best but somehow you are not getting a result you want. Don’t you wish you can understand what you are doing wrong? Don’t you wish you can put your finger on the problem? Maybe you just make bad choices when it comes to men and you are doomed to work too hard to get someone’s attention.
They teach us that we have to work endlessly to keep the love we have. That we should feel so lucky and hold to our man so dear that we should almost sleep with one eye open to not let him slip away. Is it really like that? Is affection an endless struggle?
Women have tendency to overdo things, push themselves to limits just to be likable to men. Are you beautiful, funny, intelligent and sexy enough for your taste today? You wake up with same questions, always thinking you need just a little bit more to be perfect. And you can’t be more wrong.
What if I told you that you already have what it takes to get a relationship you always wanted? That you are so close to have a man that deeply appreciates you and wants you by his side always. Would you believe me?
If you are doing this, this endless seek for a better you, you are doing it wrong. It is not about your appearance, your face and your body. It is about the tone you use. If you want to skip to the answer, check out this video.
Penny for your thoughts
If your relationship has hit the rock bottom you know best that you have tried everything to make it shine again. You did what you think it was the best and yet it didn’t get you where you wanted. Do you wish to peek inside his head and find out what’s on his mind? Don’t you just want to pull those words out of him and finally see what he wants?
Will you ever be the woman that has his full attention? Pushing him to text you back, telling him what to do and what not to do is pointless. Making him tell you what you want to hear will never make you happy. He is not a puppet, and you don’t want that from him. You live for a true romance, honest affection and purest connection with the man you love. Why you seem to be so far away from that when you are trying so hard?
Meeting each other’s needs and taking care of each other is essential for one healthy relationship between two people. But what happens when you seem to be the only one trying to make it work? You can even say that you are doing all the work. Where is the fun in that? Is this what you have signed for?
You don’t need a mind reader or a crystal ball to know what is missing if you are doing all the hard lifting in a relationship. If your man is losing interest even when you do all the things he likes, it is one of the first signs that his primal instincts are silenced.
Because every man just wants to be a hero! It is as simple as that.
Your man just wants to be the one doing things for you, and not the other way around. This hero instinct that drives every man is more important that you might give it a credit.
If you want to find a way to a man’s heart, to capture his love and attention, there are few more things that you should know. There is a secret so simple that you can master it today. Would you join the ride and change your love life today if you could? If you feel you are up to it, skip to this video.
Some ingredients that might spice up things just the way you like it
You are a strong independent woman that wants a man to love her endlessly. Guess what? You both want same things! You want to be the center of his attention, an object of his deepest desires and he just wants to be there for you. You want to have his endless love and affection and he just wants to provide it for you. You are a perfect couple!
However, to make him feel like a provider, a man of many talents, a superman that can save your day, you have to let him be your hero. Let him show you how it feels to be loved and cherished. How will you do that?
Give him chance to win you over, all over again. We all know at least one couple that claims that they date night still feels like the first time. How they do that? What is their secret? Soon enough you will understand.
It is clear by now – you want a man in your life, possibly the one that will treat you like you deserve. Making a space for one is always a good start. Nobody wants to be where he is not needed, especially a man with a strong hero instinct. Stop doing all the things for him and let him lead the way for a change. Enjoy his company and appreciate his effort. Show him that you need him in your life.
So why you are trying to control him, when you can let him lead you for a change? All you have to do is to say the right words or do the thoughtful gesture, and he will be all over you soon enough.
If you learn how to awake a man’s most secret and powerful desire to earn you love, to prove his devotion to you, you will finally have a relationship that you have been working for so long. To know more about how to get where you want to be, check out this free video presentation from the link given in His Secret Obsession Blog.